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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 19.06.2025 18:34

How does one succeed in life?

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

What's your review of "The Queen Who Ever Was," Episode 8 of Season 2 of 'House of the Dragon' (spoilers)?

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

How do scammers communicate? Do they have a specific language or slang?

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

What's your review of the movie Poor Things?

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

If a narcissist can't feel remorse, can they ever feel regret for an evil act after going to rehab?

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Why do people stay in cults after they have joined?

That's it for today.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

What are the most outrageous violations of restaurant buffet etiquette have you seen?

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Why do men prefer low-maintanence women?

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Is a man who enjoys anal sex considered a sissy? For those who think so, why can't they be thought of as someone who enjoys a variety of sexual pleasure?

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Does not procrastinate.

Who is the most annoying character in the Office?

Making more friends is a goal.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

What makes outside showers appealing? Why are they not commonly seen?

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Why do entitled people demand that I pick up after my doggo when he goes to the bathroom? Do they not know that doggy doo decomposes & feeds the plants?

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

How can MeTV Toons compete with other national broadcast TV networks?

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Procrastinates a lot.

How does the narcissist react when he realizes you no longer care?

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Do not set goals—set systems.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Ask yourself:

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

What I need from you?